Help..my future mother-in-law is a NIGHTMARE?

my fiance and i have been together for 4 years now and we're planning to get married next year.i asked for advice here 5 days ago. i'm so frustrated.my fiance is the only son of a very wealthy family.my family's not poor and i'm definately not a gold diggger.his mother is against the match-from the very start.i don't know why she hates me, i never gave her reason to. i honestly tried to like her..my fiance's mother threatened to disown mike(my fiance).mike doesnt really care about it but i dont want to be the cause of it.i tried to patch things up with her but she really is against me.and frankly, i dont want mike to be disowned.he's inheritance is worth roughly 2.2 million dollars, excluding the Co. %26amp; the properties owned by his family.im not saying i'm marrying him for money-honestly.i just dont want him deprived of what is rightfully his.i know hes sacrificing alot w/c makes me feel really guilty.i love him,shud i stil go on w/ the wedding w/o his mothers approval?

Help..my future mother-in-law is a NIGHTMARE?
I think his mother is scheming to pretend to disown him to find out whether you're a gold digger should you leave him (after he's "disowned"), then she'll have a point to prove to her son to justify why she doesn't like you and thinks you're wrong for her son and that you're only after the money. Women can be canniving like that. I mean, other than that, I don't know why else she would want to disown her only son unless she wants all the money to herself - which proves she's not a very good mother. So this means if I were you, I wouldn't give a rat's @$$ about her because this is really showing her true colors. Don't let someone like that ruin your happiness. If you know deep in your heart that you love your fiance and that you are definitely not going after the money, you two should go on with the wedding and be happy together. If you ask me, this will anger the mom even more and THAT is satisfying! :)
Reply:Send sonny boy home to his ***** of a mother, the money isn't worth the sake of happyness or the piece of mind. NO MATTER HOW MUCH IT IS.......
Reply:Don't Let this Women Control You. you love him she should be happy about that. she sound like a real *****.
Reply:Why don't you ask your self are you in love with Mike or are you just trying to please his mother. Let your parents know what you are up against with his mother, your mother might be able to help. His mother will never be satisfied with who ever he chooses. Probably because you are a lot like she was at your age. She is giving you the same treatment that her mother inlaw gave her. Take the control back, tell your future husband your not going to put up with her Sh********t and you will not take it anymore. If he loves you he will tell her to back of. Its his life too. IF the choice to not have something to do with you then that is her choice not yours, but she must have respect for you. Mike does not have to make a choice, only the choice to make her respect you. Watch the movie 'Monster-In-Law' with Jane Fonda. And by a bottle of sleepsence. The lady needs some sleep.
Reply:This is reason NOT to marry. She will haunt you and your husband is probably more like her than you realize...I'm serious, look at his qualities,,,,,,
Reply:u will marry him not his mother so dont worry about it....


wen u r married u will live together not with his mother....
Reply:She may not actually disapprove of you, so much as she disapproves of young Mike standing his ground and not letting mommy dearest have her way. This doesn't sound like something you can fix. Be sure you're getting the man you really love, dear, because you'll also get his family. Good luck to all of you (yes, including the monster-in-law).
Reply:hi..if mike loves you so you are a lovable person ..try to make her know you more i'm sure she'll love you %26amp; if she won't it'll be her lost.. don't let her rewend your life all you have to do is loving her for mike's sake ..