Would you stay with your wife if she lied to you about being sick (w/cancer) and telling you she had money?

(question continued......)





from an inheritance that isn't true...but she told youo b/c she thought that would make you stay, after getting mad, would you divorce her??








here's the SCENARIO:





But she did it b/c she was afraid and thought that would keep you around? and that you have 2 children under 3 together, haven't seen your youngest child and your oldest child in almost a year....





now you have a gf that you have been with for almost 1 year and it was one of the women you were sleeping with behind your wife's back.........





would you file for divorce??





and if you tried to get it done behind your wife's back, and she filed a petition to dismiss the case b/c you lied and provided fals information, would you to amend it





OR





think twice and leave it alone?





Also since you've changed your number, after all that has been said and done, would you attempt to calll your wife?





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Men, what can I do to open the lines of communication?

Would you stay with your wife if she lied to you about being sick (w/cancer) and telling you she had money?
i wouldnt forgive anyone for lying to me in a relationship, not something as serious as cancer and finances no!


if my hubby cheated on me, i wouldnt want him in my or my childrens lives. if he hasnt seen the youngest in so long, they wont know who he is anyway and no sort of man like that deserves children anyway. dont drag the kids through something that they never asked to be involved in.


give them a happy healthy childhood and move on from the ex!


xx
Reply:Nope.





She must be real hot for you to put up with all of that!





Trust me. Hot and crazy is only fun for a week or two.





Dump her already!
Reply:i cannot understand which part the guy is doing and what the girl is guilty of here. so confused.
Reply:HONESTY is a must in a relationship.. Without honesty, trust and communication than the relationship is doomed......





This woman clearly destroyed this marriage all by herself, I could forgive this person, but I would never forget or allow myself to be sucked back in by this individual..





To lie about being sick with cancer to keep a man is not acceptable by any standards..


I frankly feel sorry for this woman who did this, and would recommend serious counseling...





I would leave this man alone if you know what is good for you, he has had enough of you...