Is it me or is my boyfriend being a jerk?

Just yesterday I broke up with my bf b/c I just feel like he's being controlling me lately. For example: I am planning on going to University of New Haven where he attends and I've tried my best to try and get into this University but the problem is that I didn't receive a lot of financial aid and now I have to take around a $12000.00 loan. Of coarse my aunt doesn't want to co-sign b/c it's too much money and I have no contact with my mother whatsoever plus my father passed away. I would rather wait to next year where I won't need a co-signer and would be receiving a lot more financial aid. Also, I have a situation where my father had left a large sum of inheritance money for me and my aunt is not willing to give it to me but she is willing to give it to me to spend it on something that I really need like things for the dorm or a laptop. My bf just became angry with me b/c I won't go as far as to send them to court to get my money and that's a huge problem.

Is it me or is my boyfriend being a jerk?
wow,there is so many things going on in your life.your boyfriend shouldn't be acting like that ,that's to mean an yes he needs to understand .but if he doesn't you don't need a guy like that putting pressure on you ,if hes not going to help you out and frustrate you you don't need him.Take care of the other important things instead.Hes going to realize what he did later and to get back with you he needs act right,or else get a guy you can understand you ,and be a gentlemen not a jerk,that's very I'mmature of his part and im sorry for all those bad things going on right now.it cant get worse than that be strong and it will pass.
Reply:It sounds like he is a little controlling. What are his motives? Why does he want you to sue? Is your family being bit chy about it or do they always look out for your well being?


It all depends on what YOU want to do. So you want to do something different, there is NOTHING wrong with that. You are your own person, you know what's best for you in your life.
Reply:your ex was probably angry just because he loves you so much and wants to be with you. still, you can't help what situation you're in, and it's not his place to step in and tell you how to handle the situation. if your boyfriend can't respect your choices and understand your decision, he wasn't even worth your time!
Reply:Your bf is suck a jerk. He has no right to control you. It is OK to give friendly advice but seriously
Reply:Dump him. If he can't understand your situation and will not support you then kick his sorry butt to the curb. You have enough headaches as it is and you don't need another.
Reply:yes, he is. he should be supportive of you! plus, you don't need that extra stress hes causing